Monday, July 4, 2011

Friends vs bestfriends

Happy Independence day US! And hello Malaysians!

Just came back from my hometown to this 'Kota Batu' after going through jammed. It was nice in kampung and feel like not going back here. Yet, there are a lot of obligations and things to do back here. Haihh! (I wish I can stay a lot longer..). Aha! Someone makes me smile today and feel like grinning for the whole day (Ngeee...). Thanks anyway!

Be my bestfriend forever..

I believe that all of us having a bunch of friends! Even in FB we may have thousands of friends! (I wonder if people really have thousands of friends..). Some friends is a virtual friends, and some is the actual friends. Why I call it actual friends? Because you see the person and you can hang out together. Though sometimes they are not always by your side, but when you go where else, there's a friends that you can hang out with. Friends vs bestfriends..

We may have lots of friends, yet we maybe have a few bestfriends.. How do we know that the person is your bestfriend? (I have a few bestfriends from my Uni time.. And I am thankful feel like being bless cause I have them in my life!). There are a lot of differences between both friends! Let see..

Friends may be with you when you are in a good condition. They happily hang out with you, shop with you til you drop and having a good karaoke session with you at your leisure time. Yet, a bestfriends will come to you when you are really need a shoulder. They will hold you so that you will not fall and they may cry together with you so that you will feel at ease. They will shop with you but they won't let you drop! And they won't choose to have fun at karaoke as they wish to sit back at the starbuck's just to listen to all your stories and some munchies..

Friends will ask you to have fun at any restaurant or maybe movies. Yet a bestfriends will come to your house or invite you to their house, do some pillow talk and having fun trying a new recipe. As bestfriends just need you around them as you are the main happiness for them.

Friends is someone that you will see everyday but you won't keep in touch with them once they are not around. But a bestfriends is someone that you will always keep in touch though how far apart you are. You will always care if they are updating some strange status in their Facebook and you will straight away call them instead of giving comments.

I know you love me...

Friends is just a friends like an outsiders living in a same room. But a bestfriends is someone that you treat like a family, a sisters where they know every single things that happen to you. They will never get boring listening to your love stories and keep on asking about it when you are no longer telling them your stories. They will cry with you and will hug you just to let you know that you not alone when you are at the most difficult time. A bestfriends is someone that you need the most when you are at you lowest and hope that person is by your side. And bestfriends is someone that will never admit that they love you so much yet they really care and love you sincerely from their heart. To my bestfriends, I love you all so much from the bottom of my heart..

Feel like calling you bestfriends? Please do..

Saturday, July 2, 2011


Pleasant weekend all!

Doing nothing and thinking what I need to write today and it makes me remind of something that quite harsh for me. Naa... Not that harsh actually. Talking about 'jodoh' or mate or mr and mrs. right or maybe your true love. Ha! Forgot to mention that I stay up late last night just because I am watching Asmara 2 online. I never thought that it is kinda interesting Malay drama. Well, it gives me an idea to talk about all this 'jodoh' things.

I love you

Orang tua2 selalu tanya, "bila nak kawin? Jiran sebelah rumah tu dah dapat cucu dah pun..". It is typical. All of us in this world has been given a partner right before we born. We live as a pair. Even if you are already get marry, doesn't mean mean that you found the right one since you might got divorce. No one hoping for this but it is true. How many people get divorce just because they found someone else? Sometimes we are in love and we pray that the person is our soulmate. What happen next, a few months after both of you break up. No one fall in love and wish to break up. Yet, maybe Allah give you a chance only to that extend.

"Bersangka baiklah dengan Allah. Since He know what's best for us"

Sometimes Allah let us meet someone who is not right for us so that we will appreciate someone who will come after. Yet sometimes, He make us meet someone else for us to appreciate everyone around us. Maksudnya kat sini, Allah nak kita bersyukur dengan apa yang kita ada since as a human we always forget our root.

When talking about jodoh, everyone that we meet in our daily life is a jodoh. Sebab tu orang selalu cakap, ada jodoh kite jumpa lagi. But we Malay, always think out of the bound. It good to think that way, yet friends, families and even enemies is jodoh which is in other word, we are meant to meet each other. Who said we will
meet someone from next door? Person from next door turn left and you turn right if Allah do not wish you both meeting with each other.
I do

When talking about jodoh, it is something wide which not only focus on meeting a soulmate. However, if we are talking about soulmate, it maybe someone who will be right by your side until the end. People getting marry and said that they found their 'jodoh' which is not exactly right yet it is not wrong either. A couple, broke up and they have someone else. Yet in the end, the couple get married to each other. Maybe the reason why the other person is exist because they are meant to meet with each other but maybe just as a friend. Memang betul jodoh dah ditetapkan, but someone said still we need to find our jodoh. If duduk rumah 24/7, maybe jodoh tak sampai jugak. In order untuk jumpa jodoh, kita kena berusaha since Islam sendiri nak kita berusaha. Any ideas on this since I am not sure either ,whether I have met my one?